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	<title>there's a new monarchy in town</title>
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		<title>untitled</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 19:59:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a picture of her tucked into the clear driver&#8217;s license window of my wallet.
Taken with my cell phone by her dad, hovering over us, exhausted and elated that she was finally here, some 50 hours after she decided it was time. It was minutes after they had sewn me up, each end of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>what I know.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 20:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[She has kind eyes and a gentle manner, this woman tasked with sitting across from us to listen. She is patient and waits out the tears, tells us that every single thing, both the horrible and the hopeful, are indeed normal. I&#8217;ll go back.
I have the love of a remarkably brave and endlessly caring man. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>my apparent life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 17:48:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been three months since Sadie died. I can say with certainty that time appears to move particularly slowly when you&#8217;re actually paying attention.
I have a job now, with Stuart&#8217;s company doing something I have little interest and absolutely no experience in. The two redeeming qualities of the position are of course a second income [...]]]></description>
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			<media:title type="html">My walk along the river toward Tower Bridge.</media:title>
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			<media:title type="html">I pass the Tower of London, and signs that read, \&#34;West Drawbridge Repair Project.\&#34;</media:title>
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			<media:title type="html">Through to St. Katharine\&#39;s Dock, where the office is. Incredibly peaceful at 8am.</media:title>
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		<title>some sort of effort</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 16:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re trying our best to go on with life over here. 
Sleep is still an issue but one I&#8217;m working on, with help. I am job hunting and interviewing, broadening my usual too-picky search to include new opportunities and challenges. I am admittedly trying to make things feel as different from before as I can, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>isn&#8217;t the right thing usually the hardest?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:38:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have our return flights booked to England on Sunday, arriving in London at 6:30am Monday. 
A huge part of me is dreading going back. Knowing I&#8217;ll likely be spending my 31st birthday, what would have been her 3 month old birthday, organizing and storing all of her things. Tucking them out of sight as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>her love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 13:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I read about just how few babies are affected with what Sadie had, I want to tear my eyes out. I have also read that parents can&#8217;t help but blame themselves when they lose a child, no matter how impossible that may be. I do know now, I&#8217;m forced by fact and medical evidence [...]]]></description>
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		<title>why us?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 16:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have such trouble sleeping now, once all of the day&#8217;s noise and distractions are gone and I&#8217;m left to my own devices. I can&#8217;t fall off into slumber within minutes, or deep breathe my way to dreams. What I do is lay in the darkness and think. And think some more. And before I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>truth</title>
		<link>http://ukmckays.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/truth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 20:13:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I try to sort out my thoughts in the midst of a painful moment I realize one feeling is standing out. It&#8217;s strongest during one of two times. At night, when I try in vain for hours to fall asleep. Second, when I see happy strangers carrying their beautiful babies, contented smiles on their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>thank you</title>
		<link>http://ukmckays.wordpress.com/2008/04/25/thank-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 19:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[New distractions are keeping me from even thinking straight, let alone being able to update here. Maybe I&#8217;ll take a break, maybe I&#8217;ll be back tomorrow. Either way I&#8217;m humbled and so very grateful for the shocking amount of support shown to us through this site, via comments and private email. I think it helps. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>a glimpse</title>
		<link>http://ukmckays.wordpress.com/2008/04/18/a-glimpse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 00:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On a streetcar up Market Street. On Ocean Beach, where the sound of the water was the only thing I could hear. The only sound to drown out me crying out. On a plane, where the sound of a baby crying 12 rows back startled me upright from a fitful sleep.
It&#8217;s hitting me without warning, [...]]]></description>
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