New distractions are keeping me from even thinking straight, let alone being able to update here. Maybe I’ll take a break, maybe I’ll be back tomorrow. Either way I’m humbled and so very grateful for the shocking amount of support shown to us through this site, via comments and private email. I think it helps. At the very least it opens my eyes to the idea that such pain is not unheard of, nor is it uncommon, and that the kindness of strangers sharing their lives is more comforting than one would expect.
What counts right now is that Stu and I are taking each day at a time, and we’re doing it together.

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April 25, 2008 at 3:03 am
Connie
It is amazing how strangers can touch each other lives. I think you and Stu should be thanked for allowing us go through this tough time with you. Stay strong and remember that you are in many, many readers thoughts and hearts.
April 25, 2008 at 7:23 am
Sarah
I hope where ever you are and whatever you do you know that your old college friend thinks of you both often. much love and many hugs my dear, dear friend.
April 25, 2008 at 8:05 am
Mama T
One day at a time sounds like a manageable approach to life for you both right now. Good luck, I cannot imagine what you are going through.
April 25, 2008 at 3:04 pm
Disa
Thinking of you still honey and checking your site every day. You are my sister in the family that is motherhood and we all feel your pain sweetie. Stay strong…
April 25, 2008 at 5:24 pm
The queen
Big hugs for you two.
Hugs make people feel guishie. <3
April 25, 2008 at 6:10 pm
Beth
thinking of you and continuing to be here to love and support you via cyber space.
April 25, 2008 at 9:29 pm
Kelly
Still think of you every day, with gladness that you and Stu have each other. Just another stranger with love and sorrow for your family…
April 26, 2008 at 12:53 am
catdoggg
good
April 26, 2008 at 2:13 am
EWiller
I hope this doesn’t sound trite or whatever, but I think you sound like an amazing person. Thinking of you guys.
April 26, 2008 at 8:38 pm
tinafrench
That is absolutely what counts. Just know, as well, that a lot of people are thinking of you and sending strength your way. We’ll be waiting to read whenever you’re ready to write again.
April 28, 2008 at 5:32 pm
Tracey
You both have such an amazing outlook. I love your blog and you have and will continue to touch so many people. I find it cathartic to read your messages. I hope you find it the same to write them.
Always thinking about you.